You are either defining the story of what is happening or other people are defining it for you. What you tell yourself is your narrative and the narrative of your life shapes your reality. There are 5 things that I remind myself of often, sometimes multiple times in one day, that I want to share with you as well!
- I have everything I need. I know this sounds so simple but most of us have a complex that says nobody has ever done this before, my situation is so different from everyone else’s, or nobody understands. Saying “I have everything I need” grounds us. When we start to go into negative thoughts it puts us in a victim mentality but realizing you have everything you need makes us open our eyes to everything that is around us! Philippians 4:13, “And my God will liberally supply (fill to the full) your every need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”
- I am not alone. The enemy wants to isolate you and make you feel alone and like nobody cares what you are going through. The truth is that there is someone, if not several, people out there going through the same exact thing. There is power in uniting together with one another in your difficulties. Hebrews 13:5, “for He [God] Himself has said, I will not in any way fail you nor give you up nor leave you without support. [I will] not, [I will] not, [I will] not in any degree leave you helpless nor forsake nor let [you] down (relax My hold on you)! [Assuredly not!]”
- I was born for this. Tell yourself this, I was born for (fill in the blank). It can be as simple as I was born to be my children’s parent. What saying this does is connect us back to our purpose. Esther 4:14, “Yet who knows whether you have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”
- I have always figured it out. God has never left me in a problem that He hasn’t shown me how to get out of. We won’t always know the answer but God does!
- I can trust God no matter what. True faith comes without stipulations. God is the Lord of the valley and the Lord of the mountaintop. Isaiah 26:3, “You will keep him in perfect peace, Whose mind is stayed on You, Because he trusts in You.”
Friend, wherever this finds you I want to declare over your life that you are the right person, at the right place, at the right time! You were made for such a time as this! XO
I was talking to my friend the other day, just having some girl talk, and I was questioning if anything I was even doing actually mattered anymore. Do my podcasts matter, do my blogs matter, or am I just wasting my time with everything. Of course she encouraged me and validated my voice but how often do we do this to ourselves? We often keep moving forward and as long as we are taking steps everything is going great but once we give ourselves permission to lean into fear even if its just for a moment we find ourselves slowly leaning more and more towards that resistance and doubt. It always starts out as a whisper and keeps growing and before you know it, it’s no longer a lie but a truth because now you are building your life around it. So me in this season just stopped pushing record and stopped doing the things that I knew I needed to do to keep going. Imagine if you only go to the gym when you feel like it, you would never get the results you want. It’s the same thing for showing up for ourselves and our goals! If we only show up when we feel like it, we won’t see anything come to pass. You have to show up even when you feel like not showing up. It’s through your discipline that you start to see results. Are you like me and questioning if what you’re doing even matters? I want to tell you that yes, it matters! And the reason it matters is because God put it in your heart! Sometimes you have to stop and ask yourself what are the things that I can’t stop doing and when you find that out that is your indicator of your purpose and calling. These areas are often where the enemy attacks the most because he knows thats where you are called. Heaven is cheering you on and fighting for you and you have only scratched the surface of what God is going to do in your life. There is more of His grace, His provision, His favor, more of whatever you need! It’s us choosing to trust Him in the journey and choosing to keep going that gets us there. Friend, are you showing up for yourself? Are you disciplined in the things that you don’t feel like doing? God put a big purpose on your life because He knew that He was able to perform it, not because you could. XO
When we hear a name it automatically identifies who the person is. I love the verse Isaiah 9:6, “For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. I love this verse so much because this one verse alone shows us so much about who God is to us! In the past, a name would be given to someone to frame up who you are and who you were to become or even what we could expect from that person. This verse in Isaiah is doing just that, it’s revealing His character to us in order to reveal our future with Him.
Wonderful / This word is so much more than what we would think of as wonderful. Hebrew versions of wonderful actually mean many things and one is miracles. This tells us that He is a miracle working God and what we can expect in our lives is miracles! Another meaning is extraordinary. When we get Jesus in our lives we get a special measure on our normalcy, we go from ordinary to extraordinary!
Counselor / This name means that He makes intercession for us day and night. His love is for us and nothing can separate us from the love of God. He is talking to the King and advocating for us on a daily basis. We can turn to and talk to Him when we feel like all hope is lost. He is a counselor who is on our side and will never fail us!
Mighty God / He is God who does not lack or have limits. He is mighty and strong in all ways at all times. When we do life with Him, His strength and power become infused in us. Too often, we see our problems as big and our God as small but that couldn’t be farther from the truth. We have a really big God and really small problems. We serve a God that is full of strength and power!
Everlasting Father / He has no beginning and no end! He is the Alpha and the Omega. He knew us before He formed us. He is everlasting and connected to a supply that does not run out or have a shortage. He has more than enough for you and me!
Prince of Peace / God is going to war against everything that is not giving you peace in your life. God is concerned with whatever is troubling you, worrying you, and giving you stress. He is fighting for your peace!
Some of us are defining God by what we’ve seen other people do or how we’ve been treated but I want to tell you friend, don’t define who God is based on others failures. He is an everlasting father!! He is the father and that means we are the children, no matter what- we are His children! God’s will for you is to have complete peace in your life with nothing missing, nothing broken. XO
If you’re anything like me, I love the “suddenly” you see in the Bible! I love reading along and seeing God suddenly show up and perform a miracle. In Exodus 23:30 the Bible tells us, “Little by little I will drive them out from before you, until you have increased and are numerous enough to take possession of the land.” Here God shows up and lets them know He is going to be there and bring good but it’s not going to happen how they think. In fact it’s going to happen little by little. If I’m being honest I’m partial to the suddenlies of God. If we see though, most of the Bible is actually the little by little moments. It’s people trusting God in the process and on the journey. In fact God states again in Deuteronomy 7:22, “And the Lord your God will clear out those nations before you, little by little; you may not consume them quickly, lest the beasts of the field increase among you”. I think about how this plays a part in our everyday lives. We don’t want little, we want big and now! When we think this way we are missing the little God gives us to get to the big. God uses the ordinary to get us to our extraordinary. Just like Moses, God told him to use the staff in his hand. It’s what he had in his hand, the small thing to make a big difference. I’m a runner and I didn’t just get up one day and start running a half marathon. It took me mile by mile, little by little, step by step that got me to the big run. The same is true for our life. Suddenlies do happen but most of the time it will be the little by little. The stars won’t align in your favor, it will never be the perfect time. It’s the time and the work put in each day that gets you to your suddenly. Use what you have and as you do that God will make up the difference and give you what you don’t have. God’s instructions are so simple and so small for us today. God is not a complicated God, we make it complicated, we just have to use what you have!
Friend, stop waiting for perfect, it will never be the perfect time to start that blog, to go to church, to call that friend, and the list goes on. Only you know your next step that God is telling you to do, whatever it is just take the next step! Let’s be said that we were like Moses in Exodus 40:16, that whatever God asked of us, we did. XO
When reading in Luke 17 I noticed something very interesting. Here the disciples are with Jesus and ask Him how many times they have to forgive someone who has done them wrong. Then he tells them in vs 4 “Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them”. What was interesting to me was the disciples’ reply. Their reply was asking the Lord to increase their faith. You see the disciples had never asked Jesus to increase their faith before. They saw miracle after miracle with Jesus and yet never asked that question. But when it came to forgiveness and the Lord let them know that sometimes they would have to forgive multiple times in a day then they asked to increase their faith. They knew the only way to walk in that kind of forgiveness was if their faith walk was strong. This is true in our lives as well! The times in my life where I’ve been able to forgive the easiest is because my relationship with God is the strongest. What I really want to focus on with you is the Lord’s reply, “And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou planted in the sea; and it should obey you”. Most of us have heard this scripture before but I want to dissect with you why He chose a sycamine tree. Why out of all the trees in the earth did Jesus point out the sycamine tree in this verse?
A sycamine tree:
-Produces fruit that looks like a fig but the taste is bitter. This tells us that we can produce fruit in our lives easily but when our hearts aren’t right our fruit is bitter. Sure everything can look great on the outside but what is actually happening on the inside? God didn’t call us to produce bitter fruit but good, life giving fruit.
-It grows extremely fast. Most trees take years to develop but this one grew rapidly. People would grow this tree for shade. When we let unforgiveness creep in it starts to grow fast and at a rapid pace in our lives.
-It was used to make caskets. Unforgiveness keeps you from moving onto the next season of your life, it’s basically where dreams go to die. When unforgiveness and bitterness starts to come into your heart you’re letting your dreams go to a place to die. You have to make the choice, are your dreams and destiny worth you holding onto this grudge and bitterness?
-It has deep roots. Just as fast as it grew up it grew down too. Unforgiveness does the same in our lives. Before we know it, it begins to take root and grow deep down into every being of who we are.
-It grows in any environment. Some trees only thrive in certain areas but this tree can be planted anywhere and it will grow. Isn’t it amazing that unforgiveness will still grow no matter where you are planted. Someone can be planted in the most life giving church, be surrounded by the most encouraging people, and still be harboring unforgiveness. We need to change our hearts to change our environment, not change the environment to change our heart.
Friend, what if you had faith like the grain of a mustard seed? Something so small that can take a tree like the sycamine and uproot it. It’s time for us to walk in forgiveness so that we can experience all that God has for us in our life!